Stephanie came home with me but we spent much time at the hospital. The contractions would begin and the doctors would give medication to stop them. Several ultra-sounds were administered to
make sure Tay was healthy. Each time she seemed to look out the screen and turn to suck her thumb. She seemed to be saying "Nana it is not time to see me yet."
Then came the day! Boy talking about keeping us on our toes. Tay kept us hopping. Stephanie would have pain and I would rub her back and call the hospital. They kept saying the pains were not
EXACTLY five minutes apart so she was not in true labor. Now excuse me! Tay doesn't have a clock in there.
I was so worried and Steph was in so much pain. Steph finally said she thought it would help if she walked. Now mind you we lived way out in the country, a place called Possum Hollow if that
gives you an idea and we are an hour & a half from Nashville where the hospital was.
Trying to help I walked beside Steph down our country lane keeping my arm around her. Every few steps she would stop with a pain. Half way down the lane she started bending her knees, going
down. I thought she was falling but then she said I feel like if I squat down and push it will feel better!
OH NO! I have had babies and I am doing some dancing trying to get her back to the house. When we finally make it I once again call the hospital. They repeated their all day echo. I screamed
"I have given birth to three children and when a pregnant woman says she needs to squat and push the baby is on it's way!"
We proceeded to the hospital where they rambled around putting Steph to bed with no concern. Then! They hooked the monitor up. Everyone began stepping around and getting doctors in.
It was very scary and Steph was scared as I sat beside her. Then bad turned to worse. They gave Steph an epidural because she was in so much pain. The needle moved and wasn't working so they
had to reinsert it. Just as it took affect Tay's heart beat dropped. Nurses and doctors came from everywhere surrounding the bed. They wanted Steph to get on her hands and knees but because of the epidural she couldn't move. Nurses turned
Steph as she looked around in fear calling for me. I couldn't get close to my terrified daughter.